Most people find the Perfect person to be with, to love and be loved. But think of these;
How do we define the perfect person?
Is it the looks or what things meet the eye?
Is it the status in life? How much treasures does his crate holds?
Is it the stability of his life? How his careers soars him to heights everyone dreamed to be?
Is it the great parent figure that can ensure the future of your so-dreamed kids?
Is it the relationship with his principles and foundations and beliefs?
Okay, okay, you have the answers in your mind. Having those answers manifests you being normal. Yes, setting standards are normal, my dear. Now this leads to my next question:
How can a perfect person be loved?
You see the person as the all-good person, no glitches, nothing. My dear, if you think that's loving truly, think again. A perfect person is never loved. He is adored. He is being looked up. As per everyone's definition / perception, love is blind. When are you blind when you are with the perfect person? Or let me rephrase that, what things from a perfect person are you going to be blind for? Nothing, right? Sometimes, I can't help thinking that a perfect person isn't worth loving, but is worth the admiration, nevertheless. There's not even a place in the life of the so-called perfect person to be loved, for there is nothing to be filled for. None for love to make if full.
And perhaps, there is no such thing as a perfect person. A perfect being, perhaps, yes, but not a perfect person.
So where does the perfect-person hunt go?
Stability. Other than quality. We set those standards, then find the person who possess it. When time comes, someone will make us fall in love. That person might not possess all the things we long for. But definitely, there's the dilemma. Complementing. Not setting the differences but putting solutions to it. Arguing on glitches but not hating one another because of that. Most couples have this trend, and I find it sweet when lovers are joking about each other's differences, then maglalambingan afterwards. Cute diba?
Love shows when acceptance comes. It can also be manifested when time strengthens the differences between partners, coupled by those promises kept day by day, my definition of commitment
I guess that's what relationships are made of, you think?
How do we define the perfect person?
Is it the looks or what things meet the eye?
Is it the status in life? How much treasures does his crate holds?
Is it the stability of his life? How his careers soars him to heights everyone dreamed to be?
Is it the great parent figure that can ensure the future of your so-dreamed kids?
Is it the relationship with his principles and foundations and beliefs?
Okay, okay, you have the answers in your mind. Having those answers manifests you being normal. Yes, setting standards are normal, my dear. Now this leads to my next question:
How can a perfect person be loved?
You see the person as the all-good person, no glitches, nothing. My dear, if you think that's loving truly, think again. A perfect person is never loved. He is adored. He is being looked up. As per everyone's definition / perception, love is blind. When are you blind when you are with the perfect person? Or let me rephrase that, what things from a perfect person are you going to be blind for? Nothing, right? Sometimes, I can't help thinking that a perfect person isn't worth loving, but is worth the admiration, nevertheless. There's not even a place in the life of the so-called perfect person to be loved, for there is nothing to be filled for. None for love to make if full.
And perhaps, there is no such thing as a perfect person. A perfect being, perhaps, yes, but not a perfect person.
So where does the perfect-person hunt go?
Stability. Other than quality. We set those standards, then find the person who possess it. When time comes, someone will make us fall in love. That person might not possess all the things we long for. But definitely, there's the dilemma. Complementing. Not setting the differences but putting solutions to it. Arguing on glitches but not hating one another because of that. Most couples have this trend, and I find it sweet when lovers are joking about each other's differences, then maglalambingan afterwards. Cute diba?
Love shows when acceptance comes. It can also be manifested when time strengthens the differences between partners, coupled by those promises kept day by day, my definition of commitment
I guess that's what relationships are made of, you think?
Stability + Commitment = Great, Lasting Relationships
Just Some Thoughts...
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